Sadly, I’ve learned (experienced and observed) that we sometimes don’t treat our brothers and sisters in the Lord particularly well. (The same comment could also be applied to our nuclear family.) We should react to each other when differences rears its head as an opportunity for iron to sharpen iron (Proverbs 27:17) rather than damning those espousing a different opinion. I’ve often heard the comment that it is only the Christians who shoot their wounded. What a terrible indictment! True?
Too often, I think that we ‘major on the minor’ and not understand that if we agree on the fundamentals that the other aspects are only a matter of personal preference. To me, those are the issues that really aren’t as significant or critical to who we are and act as Christians; how we treat each other shouldn’t separate us. Unfortunately, these also seem to be the areas that set us on guard (and edge) against each other. We tend to look at what or how we disagree rather than joining hands to work together. We’ve forgotten Psalm 133:1, “Behold, how good and how pleasing it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!” And we’ve not displayed what Jesus said – that His disciples would be known by their love (John 13:35). If true, another sad indictment.
There are a number of ‘issues’ in the family of God on which we haven’t agreed or haven’t even agreed to disagree. To be fair, I believe that those who do hold differing views don’t realize this because to them they are extremely important. If it isn’t fundamental statements of faith, just how important are the differences? Most of these issues are very heated, heavily emotional, and tend to display diametrically opposed positions. However, we all use scripture to support our position. Is the difference really only one of interpretation? Regardless, it IS important to know how you stand on these issues, but it’s even more important to know why – on what you base your position. What are those foundational stones that are immutable?
My belief is that what we should be focusing on is the event that will make all the difference, the Second Coming of the Lord. If you want to quote scripture, read Matthew 24:44, “Therefore you also be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.” Then read the end of Matthew 28:18-20 because this is our assignment, one which will engage our hearts and minds, our times, energy, and resources until He does comes. ALL of us – with the same goal.
