True for you? _Are You a victim? You do realize that if this is true for you, then you are the perpetrator! Think about it … what are the words that come forth from your mouth! Are they words of worry, doubt, fear? Do words about you to you uplift or tear down? confident or […]
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True for you? Personally… I think I’m lazy because I don’t want to try and remember if I give different persona’s and words to person A when I am with person B. Do not like these kinds of games and don’t want to waste my time, energy, and thought life remembering who I am with
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Do you wonder, question yourself about your ability to change? Not willingness, nor even knowing what will happen with a change, simply – ability. Do you feel so involved with your life that imagining a change is not acceptable… or maybe not feasible or even desirable? Perhaps we should begin with your attitude about change.
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Have you ever considered that… You are a gift? I believe you are. Read again what Paul talks about in Ephesians 4:15-16. NASB “…but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ, from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together
What does that even mean? Do you have any understanding? OK… admittedly, this is undoubtedly an individual definition, but the concept – Practicing Christian – do you have your definition? Let me provide mine so you have a context. Being a Christian is meant to permeate all of who we are, everything and everyone we
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away from? or to? If you are running, do you know why? Do you have a direction or a plan in mind… or is it only a (momentary) escape? I’m not trying to dis anyone who is in a state of running, only asking them to reassess if it is necessary… and do they have
That’s the point, yes? If we repent of our words and/or actions, surely our ‘proof’ of our change is a firm vow not to repeat. And then we need to produce fruit from the change (Matthew 3:8). Otherwise, why would we say we are sorry? Do we even mean this? Or is it only a
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Revelation, Renewal, Righteousness, Relationship, Replacement This has been a developmental discovery. Initially I had the 3 R’s as my basic foundation. Then another R emerged and so on till I reached this point that there are 5 R’s: Revelation, Renewal, Righteousness, Relationship, Replacement. And they all define the refining process. I fondly call them –
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As I’ve said multiple times in multiple ways… if you don’t know where you are you can’t move to where you want to be. Obvious. However, it seems that we don’t always follow this logic. For some it’s a move along even if we aren’t certain of where we are… or, for that matter, where
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Have you ever thought much about repentance – what it means, why, and how? Do you know the motivation for your, I’m sorry? Why say it if there’s no remorse or the intention of not repeating the behavior/words necessitating forgiveness and hoped for restoration? When you know without a doubt that you did/said wrong/hurtful, what
Just write down any questions that you may have and I will get back to you in a jiffy!
