Uncategorized

  Patterns… if you stop long enough to look back, do you see a pattern? Your pattern. Does your life reflect a pattern of line-upon-line or is it more of a hodge podge… regardless, do you see what your pattern is and how it has and is determining who and what you are? What does your pattern […]

  At various times throughout our lives we come to crossroads. Some are a simple choosing of … the easiest looking road or perhaps, ‘the road less traveled’? Some are significant, an ethical choice. Some are forcing us to choose between two unknowns, or two goods, or bads, or wanting both. But unless we want to stand indefinitely in

  Whether you’ve been on your road for a long time or a short time doesn’t matter. The question is… what have you learned from your journey? There are always lessons to be learned each day if you are open to them. There are also discoveries to make, people to interact with… actually your day

  As you well know… they are not the same. Though similar, each has its own ‘feel’, its own emotions. You can be alone but not lonely just as you can be lonely and not be alone. However, we all experience these times, we all have to cope with them and we all have to

  Substitute ‘I’ for ‘we’ and this is the point. It seems that it is only when we don’t have (it) any longer that we realize what we had and rue our lack of appreciation at the time. It is so true and, for me, extremely pervasive. And it infiltrates every part of our lives.

  I’m not particularly good about asking for help. Never have been. And I don’t say that with any sense of boasting or pride. It’s just that I’ve never been good about doing so. It may be that I have this embarrassment about asking anyone (and that includes family) when I need anything. Maybe it is a 

was a comment I made in a previous post. And it struck me anew just how accurate that is. However, accuracy has nothing to do with personally accepting that point. How many people do you know that seem to just abrogate this? And even more frustrating… seem to get away with it. Yes? My only

  Without question, the most important understanding about ‘change’ is that it is a process. It is rarely, if ever, instantaneous. And yes, catastrophic events do occur causing change to be immediate, but most of the changes we experience come in the form of a process – which is on the continuum of slow to fast. You

  Small or great doesn’t matter, I love to make discoveries! They are always enlightening and never boring. They can be refinements but a discovery is terrific whether it is a warning regarding what you are doing  or a new understanding! It can be an ‘out of the box’ thinking, it can be a different approach to

  I must admit I get intrigued by trails that veer off from the main road. Many times I ‘try’ them out to see where they lead… at the same time I always keep the main road in sight so that if this new track isn’t what I thought or want I can easily return.