That’s what prayer is… talking with the Lord. At least this is my definition. And it’s bringing who you are right now… no frills, no affectations. It doesn’t matter if it sounds stupid or insignificant even to our own ears… not the point. We are supposed to bring our needs and wants (Hebrews 4:16) and right up to the throne!
“Do not be anxious or worried about anything, but in everything [every circumstance and situation] by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, continue to make your [specific] requests known to God.”
(Philippians 4:6 AMP)
Whether alone or corporately, prayer is personal. No question. However… what does the act of praying mean for you? It is only intercession? Are there times of praise and worship? Do you take the time to listen to what the Lord is telling or teaching you? When you finish with your prayer time… what are you thoughts and feelings? Do you feel enabled and equipped? If not, then your prayer time isn’t finished. Then again, I like to think that my communication channel to the Lord is always ‘open’.
I think we forget that prayer, praying is an action. It is never passive. I know many people do, but I don’t think it is only our thoughts, thus in our minds. I have to hear what I’m saying so that I know I am saying what I think I am asking, seeking. I also believe that prayer is for us therefore, we need to listen to what we say. Is there a congruence between our words and actions? Is talking out loud more accurate, precise concerning what we think?
Perhaps I’m asking the wrong question(s)? Maybe one of the questions is – what do we want from our prayer time? What expectations do we have? What would we call a ‘good prayer time’? Do you have your answers to those questions. Part of the reason I think this is critical is that this in our mindset when we do pray. Example: how can you possibly pray for (fill in the blank) if you don’t expect the Lord to answer? Where’s your level of trust? of faith?
“But you, beloved, build yourselves up on [the foundation of] your most holy faith [continually progress, rise like an edifice higher and higher], pray in the Holy Spirit” (Jude 1;20, AMP)
Prayer is more than a ‘bless this mess’ – it impacts how we grow! And, yes I know this is a topic I talk about a great deal. Why? Because this is one of the ways we build ourselves up, that we become strong and courageous. Prayer is never an ‘add on’. It is essential for our Christian life and walk. We need it as much as we need air to breathe (and that’s not hyperbole)
“With all prayer and petition pray [with specific requests] at all times [on every occasion and in every season] in the Spirit, and with this in view, stay alert with all perseverance and petition [interceding in prayer] for all [a]God’s people.” (Ephesians 6:18, AMP)
