We all make life changing decisions, maybe not every day but quite often. I wonder if we think (ahead) to the consequences/ramifications that emanate from the decisions we make? Actually I wonder if we recognize the decision to be life changing? The answer is ‘probably no’ to both questions.
Some examples of what I am calling life changing decisions are: to make/accept a proposal of marriage, to decide on college or military service or…, to accept this job vs that one, to separate from one’s spouse, to… there are many different types of decisions and all have impacts. Each decision on issues such as I’ve described will have far reaching implications and will help to define who you are.
Perhaps not all decisions are life changing but many of them are. Question: do we give them the time/effort and consideration they deserve? How many of the decisions you make are an essentially emotion based? Anger, hurt, excitement, joy… so many emotions and most, if not all, of our decisions have an emotional component. To ignore the impact feelings have on our decisions is illogical.
As you look back on your life from your vantage point, do you support the decisions you made or do you regret them? Obviously none of us chooses our best every time but, in essence, do you see your choices as a pattern or serendipitous? And regardless of which – is this ‘good’ for you? And if not, are you willing to make a life changing decision on your method of making life decisions?
