When you get down to it… how many people have you allowed to know you… including yourself? Not the surface you (which is never superficial, only surface), but the deeper you? Is there a reason? In some fashion are you protecting you? From what… or whom? Perhaps I should start with – do you like […]
Ever feel or think this way? You’ve just said or did something that surprises even you. And yes, this is both the positive as well as the negative acts/words. Do you ever wonder about yourself as to where (fill in the blank) came from? There is always a source, a motivation that prompted … always. Sometimes
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Do you have someone to share with, to ‘talk things out’? I would contend that everyone needs a sympathetic but honest ear or sounding board, or ‘confidant’. We really aren’t created to be in isolation, rather, to be in contact. This is important to our soul. Do you know who this valuable and necessary ‘other’ is
Happen to you? I suspect we all have this occur in our lives on some level … frequently. Not really all that unusual, but it can be deadly. When you are so involved in living your life you run the risk of losing you in the process. When your plate is overflowing with demands, requests,
And I mean a close friend… not merely just a group of acquaintances. Someone who knows you – warts as well as those shiny parts. A person who genuinely likes you and wants the best for you. One who doesn’t look and see you in cement but knows that you are continually growing. Someone you
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Game playing. I must admit that I really don’t like this – which could mean that I don’t really know how or that I am really, really bad at doing it. Both could exist but I’d like to think that I am ‘above’ this kind of behavior. The only kind of games I enjoy are
In absolutely everything you do and say there is personal investment. It may or may not be personal interest, agenda but it is investment. However, I don’t believe that personal investment and personal agenda necessarily define one another. They can and sometimes do… but not necessarily. Investment, in my world of definitions, means an expenditure of
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everything and everyone else BUT you! Is that how you feel? When you look at your life and the people, activities, and ‘things’ that populate your life… is it never about you and always about ‘them/it’? First – it doesn’t matter if this is true or not if this is how you feel. Second –
This is different for each of us. And it rarely is a one and done. Many of us also rarely learn and apply those learnings from how we handled the last dark time to the one we are experiencing. Though each dark time has its own dynamics, extricating does have some similarities. Fault-finding is never
I must admit that I do get a bit of dissing about being organized. Not too sure why. I do know that ‘some’ have said that being organized, planning ahead limits creativity and enjoying the serendipitous opportunities. To whit I reply – hogwash! Being prepared doesn’t mean that you don’t experience creative and serendipity
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Just write down any questions that you may have and I will get back to you in a jiffy!
