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  Are you a control freak? Of course you are – just like the rest of us! Your ‘brand’ of control may not be the same as the next person, but let’s face it – you want to get your way! If we can agree that everyone controls, wants to control, does what is ‘acceptable’ to control […]

  When I was growing up I always enjoyed the story about Goldilocks and the 3 Bears. The focus on the porridge being … just right… appealed to me. The concept is a positive one… isn’t it? Isn’t being in the right place and doing the right thing (job) and living a right life (no

  Do you ever get the feeling that the battle you are currently fighting is all too familiar? A kind of déjà vu and not pleasant? I can’t speak for you but when I find an uncomfortable similarity I get  extremely irritated. Something that I thought I had overcome has come back and is attacking me again.

  Long title. But have you ever found yourself in the position where you care but it really doesn’t seem to make any difference… to anyone… that you do? Quite frustrating. And when you find yourself in that position does it make you wonder if you should? Of course not. If you care… you care.

  Why is it everyone, and I do mean everyone, always seeks to place blame?! It’s her fault, or his, or theirs, and even inanimate things don’t escape – didn’t have enough time, money, people, etc. Whenever there is the possibility of negative consequences, immediately most people starting looking for someone/something to indicate as the

  Doubt is and it is insidious. We all face it… or try and run from it, but it’s always hovering if it isn’t present in some form of strength. What do we do with doubt? Actually… what IS doubt? Webster says that doubt is: “uncertainty of belief or opinion that often interferes with decision-making.”

  Honestly… this isn’t necessarily all bad. Sometimes you have to do ‘things’ to shake up your life – not a lot, just a little to clear the cobwebs. Because – ruts are disastrous. And if you find yourself in one, I personally believe it’s critical to shake things up or you won’t see what’s

  Do you feel that you are not in step with those around you? It’s far more than walking around in a partial daze of nostalgia or wishing for the ‘good old days’ or any other mild reaction to the vagaries of life. This is far deeper. You not only feel but know that you are

  Do you do this? Absolutely… we all do! The ‘why’ we do this varies with both the person and the particular situation. We can so quickly get into a ‘can’t’ or ‘I’m not worthy’ or ‘surely not’ mindset. This really is a lack of trust in the Potter. Somehow, regardless of our previous experience, we don’t

  What are yours like? Mixed message? Terse, to the point of sparing detail so it’s impossible to really have a sense of the communication? Detailed, to the point that so much information is given that the thread is lost? Clear and concise with sufficient information that the salient questions can be asked and answered?