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  We all tend to like to give advice and we all tend to not act on the advice others give us. Yes? Yes. I’m not sure if it’s the fact that we are asked for our thinking or the feeling we get when we give the advice that is the greatest pleasure. If I […]

  No, not only for yourself… with and for others. How are you involved with making memories with the closest circle in your world? And what kind of memories? I suspect a different way of saying this is, do people like to spend time with you? When you aren’t there, will your presence be missed? Do

  On your ‘qualities’ needs list, where is security? Obviously the answer is related to how secure you feel? And if you respond with… it depends on the subject, that’s a legitimate reply. But, for yourself, as an overall analysis – how secure are you?  Obviously if you don’t feel secure – safe, then this

  I believe that we all operate on the basis of our hidden agendas… sometimes hidden even from our conscious self. Agendas are good as long as they are properly (my definition) used. Hidden agendas, on the other hand, are typically not good as they are manipulative and self promoting. The primary reason I say

  Have you ever been concerned that in the last analysis what will be said of you is… found wanting? Though I doubt this is true, if you believe this as an accurate assessment – what are you willing to do to change it? Or are you simply going to sit in your self loathing

  Do you dilute your testimony? The reason…??? possibly so that it may be more palatable for others? If so then you are diluting the potential, the power of your words and actions, of your experience. But far worse… you are diluting that which you are testifying about. Ask yourself the simple question of would you be

  Have you ever considered that anyone else attempting to be you would come in a very poor second? If so… or if not, then consider that if you are trying to be/act like someone else you are a very poor second of them? It’s true – it’s only the original of whatever/whoever it is

  How do you handle panic? Do you panic easily, swept along by the behavior of those around you? Do you add to the panic or are you a calming force? Or… are you the source of the panic? Panic in others many times takes us by surprise and our response is often in direct proportion to

  Are you the detemined type or the wishy washy type? When you set out to do something, do you follow through and do it? Or… when things start to get hard, do you abandon whatever you were pursuing? How you approach ‘determined’ and how you handle any obstacles that emerge says a great deal about

  Am I hearing a ‘ya right’ response? Let me say it again – YOU are important. You are special. But you have to believe this as well, not merely intellectually – emotionally, spiritually, psychologically. By extension this means that the person standing next to you is important too – whether or not they know