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    What do you do when that part of you, the wrong you, emerges? How do you deal with the ‘wrong side’ of you? We all seem to have that ‘nature’ as part of our package – you know… when you say or do something you really wished you hadn’t. Or maybe you decided not […]

  I hold to the belief that everyone has a promise in them. And fulfilling that promise is what drives us. However… finding what that promise is becomes the challenge, the adventure – but it does depend on our mindset, our attitude. It really is up to us as to how we approach discovering our

  Have you ever been in the position of ‘making’ an unpopular decision, but one you felt needed to be made, was the ‘right’ one? Uncomfortable, isn’t it? But sometimes you have to make decisions that are either unpopular or are ‘different’ from what others expect or want from you. Soooo… what do you do?

  I really don’t like to be disappointed. Whether it is intentional or not, the ‘let down’ feeling is kinda yukky. And, whether the disappointment lies in a person, event, or ‘thing’ I simply don’t like disappointments. However… when I am the disappointment for another person – this I truly hate. The problem, at least

  Do you only see mountains? And craggy ones at that. Your mountain may look like a molehill to some and the Alps to you. It may look like a bump in the road or a range of mountains. Size and number are not as relevant as existence. If you have a mountain then it’s

  Are you a forgiver? When someone ask for forgiveness, are you quick to grant it? And then??? To forgive means to wipe the slate clean, do you do that for the other person, do you give them a new start? Or do you, subtly or overtly, punish them for their grievous behavior? Do you

  Does that sound as lame as it looks? Probably. But, like me, do you ever feel that way? Come on… be honest, you do. And the not wanting to has absolutely nothing to do with the ‘activity’ or the people involved… it simply is that there are moments that whatever it is with whomever they

  Do you get caught in the shoulda, coulda, oughta? Of course you do. We all do. The difference is the extent to which we let it control our lives and especially our feelings. This is a form of ‘if only…’ which accomplishes no more than the other words do. The point really isn’t what we shoulda/coulda/oughta

  I like that phrase – it really does describe best what it seems that we do. We are told that we are to move toward perfection (Matthew 5:48) and that we will become perfect. However, it is not a state that we come to fully in this life but that doesn’t quit us from the

  Do you sometimes feel like you are a mistake? Maybe you ‘think’ you might have been born in the wrong time… or maybe born into the wrong family… or maybe in the wrong country? Maybe? Not. God doesn’t make mistakes so you can’t be one! However, you have free will which means you can